I've been keeping my head down and not needed to post for nigh on 4 years but have returned and almost everyone has disappeared...

What happened to Di? The tech clerk? Plan B? Even niddy?

I feel really lost!

Well welcome back. :free-happy-smileys-

I too feel lost and I try to check in every now and again.
I fear life has caught up with a lot of us. thanks to covid we all had pressures forced uppon us that took the wind out of our sails.

Niddy is still about and could be contacted in an emergency, Di/plan B is unable to post, plus she has been really unwell.
I have had health problems, Plus Hubby had a massive stroke and is now in a nursing home so I spend most of my day's there, much to his and the staffs annoyance, nothing more annoying than a careing wife.

but if you feel like posting please do, stick around and your journey could be information for others like you that haven't needed to post for ages,

NW

Aside from what NW posted above, there were regular spats between certain posters and lots of spam posts which compounded the issue and brought down the tone of the site considerably.

I still view the site daily and enjoy reading people's latest updates and views, but it did all get rather tiresome having to wade through petty arguments to find out how other forumites were getting on.

That said, things have improved greatly of late and perhaps once the nights draw in, people will return and be more active.

In my case, it's all been super quiet on the DCA front so haven't felt the need to post much.

K91

I still pop in occasionally but not as often as I used to. Mine's all been quite quiet on the DCA front and I'm just playing the waiting game. I really appreciate the advice I've got from this site though, it's helped me deal with things where before I would probably have just paid at the slightest hint of legal action.

I still keep popping on too! Not had much to update really as just keep getting same old letters, nothing new, just biding my time to stature barred which is 18 months away!!

I will do an update on my diary though as it is interesting to look over it all, the letters that look a bit worrying when first received don’t seem half as bad when it’s the 20th and they’re still just saying same thing!!

wineaddict2020;n1551439I still keep popping on too! Not had much to update really as just keep getting same old letters, nothing new, just biding my time to stature barred which is 18 months away!!

I will do an update on my diary though as it is interesting to look over it all, the letters that look a bit worrying when first received don’t seem half as bad when it’s the 20th and they’re still just saying same thing!!

Likewise Wine addict, I too have approx 18 months until statute barred but online most nights just checking in but nothing to add, it's quiet at the moment but I'm expecting more activity in the coming months, will update if/when necessary.

I spoke too soon, just got a letter!! :D

Likewise Wine addict, I too have approx 18 months until statute barred

Looks like the there are some celebrations due in the first half of 2026, my SB date is about the same time. Not that I'm counting :)

This place was a real lifesaver.

Is there any way of messaging people for updates on their diaries to get things moving again?

PowerofCats;n1551318I've been keeping my head down and not needed to post for nigh on 4 years but have returned and almost everyone has disappeared...

What happened to Di? The tech clerk? Plan B? Even niddy?

I feel really lost!

We are still here - sadly I’m just very tied-up lately and have absolutely no time to offer but we still maintain things & purge all the spammers regularly.

Some names you recognise won’t be here. Evolution is good. Hope you’re keeping well. :)

XX007;n1551451This place was a real lifesaver.

Is there any way of messaging people for updates on their diaries to get things moving again?

Reply to their diary and they’ll be alerted I guess…